
Sunday, December 20, 2009
“Sabb Chalta Hai” Attitude

Monday, September 28, 2009
Let's burn Ravana this Dusherra
Happy Dusherra! Hope this festival kills all the evil spirits and brings even more peace, happiness and prosperity in our lives. But I increasing feel there’s a burning need to burn the Ravanas we have been nurturing inside and around us for quite some time now.. more than just a symbolic show off - in the form of burning effigies of evils every year. Let's have a commitment with ourselves this time round and shall work towards uprooting these devils in and around us which're depriving us from growing up as a human being, as a professional and as a nation. As an Indian (and as a good human being above all) I shall be working on my below-mentioned weaknesses with immediate effect which would take me and my country forward and reclaim its greatness rather than not just referring to it in the books of history.1. Overcome our aggression and develop more patience. We’ll save our energies, that we waste by losing temper while dealing in public and on the roads, for constructive things. We can be polite yet assertive.
2. Fight corruption. This is the cancer of our society. It can be eradicated with collective efforts only and each of us need to take this responsibility, and need to be vocal when we come across any instances of corruption in our daily life.
3. Courteousness. Honking on the roads, using disgraceful language in our day-to-day endeavors are two grey areas that could be immediately whitewashed. Even a dog doesn’t bark without any reason.
4. Let’s cultivate more professionalism. Better professionals mean more productivity. Let’s be punctual and do out piece of job diligently. That’s it and our country progresses by leaps and bounds.
5. Let’s get rid of cynicism. 'Never say what country has given us rather say what I’ve done for the country' says a great nationalist. We should carry out our day-to-day endeavors by analyzing how it’d help our country to go forward. Let’s not exchange national interest for 'my pocket', 'my assets' and 'my folks'.
6. Honesty. Honesty is the best policy in all the endeavors that we undertake during the day. Practising honesty is a win-win situation for all us as individual and as a nation.
7. Cleanliness. We’ve to work very seriously on this and the steps to be taken are very simple – just think before throwing/spitting carelessly anywhere – and soon we’ll find that all the streets and public places are clean like sparkle.
8. Ownership. It’s my country – this sense of belongingness is lost somewhere and we need to rejuvenate it. India is a great nation and the biggest democracy with integrity in diversity, and we should be very proud of it.
-Bete Noire
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Dilli 'Dilwalon' ki.. ya 'Paisewalon' ki?

‘Dilli hai dilwalon ki’ is the common saying in here which I’ve been listening for quite some time now. However, I’ve no more concurrence with this statement off late. Rather I’d say ‘Dill tow hai paisewalon ki’ (translation). If you’ve bucks in your pocket things go so very smoothly else one has to die every moment to live in here. The gap between richness and poverty is huge and overwhelming.
However, this statement would be difficult to make for public figure (or the well known faces who interact with the ground realities on day-to-day basis) but I being one of ‘common man’, with few extra bucks in my petty, have had liberty of living in these dual avatars – as a ‘common man’ and as a paisewala - on and off for last few years, and also don’t feel any pressure while expressing my opinion on the same.

Though I soon switch to my first avatar, mostly for a longer duration, but the agony of the horrendous experiences I go through while being in ‘dilwala’ (or common ‘dilliwalla’.. however recent talks say there’re only a handful who really are dilliwallas, most of ‘em outsiders with no real attachment to it) keeps haunting me all through my days spent in my second avatar. I can’t stop myself scanning the faces that I leave behind while travelling in my luxury limo or the staff that keeps my grin intact by giving his/her extra, at that horribly unaffordable cost. We Indians believe in short cuts not because we don’t believe in long cuts but just because of the experience that long cuts are the hopeless option and would even cost a lifetime to get something done passing through the proper channel (we’re in herds not in numbers wherever you approach in public.. In Mata’s jagraata yesterday night people were fighting while queuing up.. for what? For paying donation and getting name announced in loudspeaker!) Most of us believe that the same is easily achievable with far less efforts by being “practical and smart” (I spent two years to get my passport without being assisted by a commission agent).
Basic hygiene is generally deeply rooted into the respective cultures though bit challenged by poverty and incompetent civic authorities (I find my pockets full of my kid’s candy wrappers by the end of the day as I often don’t find any litter-boxes in public places. I was stunned to witness devotees littering used ‘prasadam’ plates next to goddess idols, yesterday during Mata’s Jagraata in my locality, without any guilt feeling.. disgusting!) Thanks to the geographical position of our country and the element s adding up to the fast disruption of the ecosystem of this city that further adds up to our woes. History says this city was built seventeen times but I feel this would be the last iteration as we’re not building (of course building the concrete jungle!) rather destroying it’s ecosystem. Still the remaining greenery belongs the older period and we can count the leftover trees on fingers that too planted by our forefather. Which direction we Delhiites going?
‘Kal ho jayega’ is the common answer if one asks for the deadlines – completely unprofessional attitude and comes with the requirement of ‘chai-paani’ which’s the pre-requisite for even having a glimpse at your case file.
Littering and honking is a very common habit we’ve developed over a period of time and often I’m a subject of humor when people around me find me shying away to do so. It doesn’t raise an eyebrow if you violate these rules of basic hygiene (rather they may raise when we do so!) that turning our beautiful city into a garbage dump and water bodies to smelly drains. I turn the pages of history that tells Indus valley civilization was among one of the oldest civilizations that makes us proud.
Thanks to the rapidly changing climate, energy shortage and eating habits that further adds up to the aggression, impatience, unproductiveness we show in our daily life which’s synonym to our behavioral attribute. More than ¾ of our city population faces the curse of electric power-cuts every summer which’s getting longer every year. As most of ‘em can’t afford inverters and hefty electricity bills like few ‘paisewallas’). That’s a different topic that sill lot of electricity is getting stolen (I came across an article recently which says our 7000KMs coastline can contribute to 25% of our energy needs through wind energy and another big lot through solar energy, and provide us immense employment option). Look at the traffic intersection and especially the two-wheelers on regular office routes. Honking is a fashion statement (or a disease?) and bikers preferring car horns. Home minister asks Delhiites to practise basic etiquettes and groom good behavioral attributes in wake of forthcoming commonwealth games. We natives of great Indian subcontinent need to be taught that we should learn basic behavioral manners and that too for hosting an international event is extremely shameful.
As a country eyeing a developed status by 2020, do we still need to emphasize that we need round the clock power, at least in our metro cities, to thrive for that essential growth and stature (or to be really called a metro). If this ‘common man’ is not sleeping whole night due to these power cuts how are we expecting him to be productive next day? Do we still have doubts that we need proper public sanitation system and responsible public administration before even called developing nation?
-Bete Noire
Saturday, September 19, 2009
Celebration called life

Thursday, September 10, 2009
I salute you Mehdi

Tuesday, August 11, 2009
Trip to England
England trip pics

Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Adios Bangkok
Bangkok Pics

Saturday, January 24, 2009
Oshin's 6th Spring
Oshin's 6th Birthday pics


Saturday, September 13, 2008
Keshav's Tulip Festival experience
Trip to Australia picture gallery

The tulip originated over ten decades ago in Persia and Turkey, where it played a significant role in the art and culture of the time. Most likely commenting on the Turkish tradition of wearing tulips in one's turban, Europeans mistakenly gave tulips their name, which comes from the Persian word meaning turban. As Europeans began admiring tulips, the flower's popularity spread quickly, particularly in the Netherlands where a phenomenon dubbed tulip mania set in at one point during the 17th century. Tulips became so highly-prized that prices were sent soaring and markets crashing. Tulips are now grown throughout the world, but people still identify cultivated varieties as "Dutch tulips." The meaning of tulips is generally perfect love. Like many flowers, different colors of tulips also often carry their own significance. Red tulips are most strongly associated with true love, while purple symbolizes royalty. The meaning of yellow tulips has evolved somewhat, from once representing hopeless love to now being a common expression for cheerful thoughts and sunshine. White tulips are used to claim worthiness or to send a message of forgiveness. Variegated tulips, once among the most popular varieties due to their striking color patterns, represent beautiful eyes. With all of the sentiments and meanings of tulips, it's not surprising that their popularity continues to endure. The wide range of colors and varieties available allows them to be used for many occasions. In addition to being a favorite for cut flower arrangements, tulips can also be given as a potted plant. The growing and caring for of tulip bulb gardens and plants is a rewarding pastime for many flower lovers. As one of the world's most beloved flowers, a gift of tulips is a sure delight, enchanting in its beauty and simplicity.So see you all Tulips next year at Keuenhoff Tulip festival one of my favourite destination of the world. http://www.keukenhof.nl/nm/english.html.
May this spring and tulips bring in the finest moments out of our life this year . Thanks to many who made this happen . Good luck Tulips! "I wandered lonely as a cloud.. that floats on high o'er vales and hills, when all at once I saw a crowd, a host, of golden daffodils" - William Wordsworth. I might be the happiest person if Wordsworth mentioned tulips instead of daffodils.. Infact all the flowers are soothing but I prefer nice little tulips cuz its just right and perfect...
cheers!
Keshav
Sunday, August 10, 2008
Trip to Australia
Trip to Australia
Melbourne city in southern state of Victoria was the destination when we boarded Thai airways flight TG981. Suddenly mercury drops to single digit when to got out of the Tullamarine airport. I could smell the same fresh air that I used to get in Washington state of US - Victoria can also be regarded as evergreen state just like Washington. City was not really full of sky-skippers just like any third city but many things were there couldn't be found everywhere. Legacy tram system for an example, lush greenary almost everywhere and highways smooth like butter. Australia is called the land of immigrants - Indians, chinese and thai folks can be seen anywhere and everywhere. Main city is not very big but is colorful and vibrant. Public transportation a plus here - main city is conveniently approachable from all the adjoining suburbs. Vast lush green pastures with cattle grassing lesuirely on both side of the highway is a common scene as soon as you come out few miles out of the city. Snow mountains are very approachable and can be visited in a single day trip - Mount Buller was the one which we visited and it was a memorable trip. A cruise trip to Sorrento followed by a long drive along the great ocean road is something incredible - Twelve Apostles was the destination for us on this long drive. Watching penguins coming out of sea after day long fishing is one more attraction during this time of the year and Philip Island is the place. Quite a few zoo, parks, aquariums and museums are there in the city and tourist transportation at the city centre is absolutely free with tourist information centre pretty much accessible.
In a nutshell this was a worthwhile vacation closer to nature. It was a healty treat for our lungs and a good exposure to australian lifestle. We should say this trip was gifted as we never planned for it. There's a good saying that few things should be treasured quitely in our hearts and never thank those people and circumstances who realize those moments as it reduces their importance. This trip was just the right example of how volatile people and circumstances are and leaves behind few sweet and unforgettable memories for long long time to come.
I'll come back with yet another episode of my travel diary soon.
Keep smiling!
Naveen
List of blogs published so far:
- Cricket in India - A religion or a curse?
- 2009: What a year it was!
- “Sabb Chalta Hai” Attitude
- Let's burn Ravana this Dusherra
- Dilli 'Dilwalon' ki.. ya 'Paisewalon' ki?
- Celebration called life
- I salute you Mehdi
- Trip to England
- Adios Bangkok
- Oshin's 6th Spring
- Keshav's 'Tulip Festival' experience
- Trip to Australia in 2008
- 10 Glorious years of togetherness
- Ko-Samet Trip
- Oshin turns 5
- Memorable Khao Yai Trip
- Tour de Hua-Hin Beach
- Words from Chacha Kalaam
- What is Celebration?
- Why Moms are so special?
- Sanju's Marriage
- Naveen's sweet memories
- Pithoragarh - My Home Town
- Celebration being in Bangkok
- Oshin loves Bangkok
- About 'Oshin' 'n 'Oshin's Oasis'
- Welcome to Oshin's Oasis
